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29Jan/160

How to Achieve Your Goals: Confidence Tip 144

Life and Business Coaching for Managers

2 Top Tips for Achieving Any Personal Goal, Career Goal or Business Goal

It’s tempting to think that because the New Year has happened, that the new you, new career or new business goals will happen too. More than any other time of the year, it feels like the opportunity for a fresh start and a positive beginning.

Yet research shows that those New Year Goals rarely happen. So, why is it so difficult for us to make those new personal goals, career goals or business goals happen and how can we make sure that our lives are more rewarding in 2016?

In this email I’ve got 2 more tips for you that will help you achieve more in 2016. For the previous 5 tips, check out my blog.

Recently, I saw this quotation which sums up the reality. “What the New Year brings to you will depend a great deal on what you bring to the New Year.” Vern McLellan.

  1. So...was your obstacle that you did the same old thing and expected a different result? For example:
  • Did you fill up your life with old activities, relationships, tasks, habits and thoughts etc. and leave very little room for the new and no time to work towards your goals? Remember, what got you to here won’t get you to there.
  • What new actions, activities, thoughts and ways of relating do you need in order to get where you want to go in 2016?
  • For instance, do you need to stop procrastinating, becoming discouraged/depressed, comfort eating, wasting time, fire-fighting, doubting, arguing, giving up, and doing other things that don’t work for you?
  • Do you need to start learning better ways to get to your goals, growing, looking after yourself better, asking curious questions, working smarter rather than harder, promoting yourself better, finding more positive people to mix with, thinking outside the box, etc.?
  1. Was your obstacle that you didn’t have someone to hold you accountable?
    • Promises to ourselves are easy to break…and New Year Resolutions are the easiest to give up on for all the reasons we’ve talked about over the last 3 weeks.  
    • It’s easier to keep to our goals if we commit to them publicly by telling our coach, friends, colleagues, clients and family members what we’re going to do.
    • Change can be difficult and so you are more likely to succeed with a life coach and/or business coach because a coach is skilled at helping you:

                                          i.    stay on track in a supportive way and determined way

                                         ii.    overcome obstacles

                                        iii.    make life easier and more exciting and

                                        iv.    develop new skills, resources and attitudes that make you more successful

So, which of the 7 obstacles applied to you and what do you want to change? If it’s number 7, I’ve got a suggestion for you…

I’d like to offer you a free, confidential ‘Best Year Yet’ Coaching Discovery Session

I have 7 sessions to give away in February.

During that 45-60 minute session,

  • We’ll discuss where you are with your personal, career or business life.
  • We’ll uncover hidden barriers to your success.
  • We’ll get clear about how you’d like your life to be.
  • Then I’ll show you how you can bridge that gap. You’ll go away feeling positive, excited and confident about making 2016 your best year yet.

If you would like to apply for a session, just email me:madeleine@growu.co.uk

Hurry to book your place because there are only 7 places left and this offer is going to over 1600 people 


‘Madeleine Morgan Life, Career and Business Coaching, Cambridge UK

Warm wishes 

Madeleine

P.S. Check out the Dates for Your Diary, Quote of the Week, ‘Useful Links’ to life changing free ‘stuff’ below.

Dates for Your Diary

  1. Wednesday 6th April 2016 Business Growth Coaching Programme

I’ve teamed up with business consultant, Tim Gale, and we’ll be launching our 12th Business Growth Programme on Wednesday April 6th at 4.30 p.m. If you live in the Cambridgeshire or Suffolk area and you’re interested in growing your business this year, in the run up to the launch we’d like to offer you a free Double Your Profits Strategy Session. In this session, we’ll discuss where your business is now and where you’d like it to be in 1 to 5 years’ time. We’ll share with you how we think you could achieve the lifestyle and business you really want.

To apply for your free Double Your Profits Strategy session, click here.

Useful Links

How to Achieve your Goals: Success for Manager's Tip 143

Free Life Wheel to help you get clear about your challenges and goals

Free ebook – The Success Ladder: How to Succeed at Any Goal

"I've just read Madeleine's 'The Success Ladder' over the weekend. What a great easy and effective guide for any aspiring leader. It's very easy to read and most importantly the actions are very powerful which I've already started to implement. Thank you Madeleine and I look forward to sharing my success with you :-)" Adrian Peck

Free report on 21 ways to add 100k to your profits

7 Secrets About Personal and Business Success You Can Learn From SCUBA Diving

Quote of the Week

“Make New Year's goals. Dig within, and discover what you would like to have happen in your life this year. This helps you do your part. It is an affirmation that you're interested in fully living life in the year to come…What would you like to have happen in your life this year? What would you like to do, to accomplish? What good would you like to attract into your life? What particular areas of growth would you like to have happen to you? What blocks, or character defects, would you like to have removed? What would you like to attain? Little things and big things? Where would you like to go? What would you like to have happen in friendship and love? What would you like to have happen in your family life?

What problems would you like to see solved? What decisions would you like to make? What would you like to happen in your career?

Write it down. Take a piece of paper, a few hours of your time, and write it all down - as an affirmation of you, your life, and your ability to choose.

The New Year stands before us, like a chapter in a book, waiting to be written. We can help write that story by setting goals.” Melody Beattie

14Jan/160

How to Achieve Your Goals: Confidence Tip 143

Life and Business Coaching for Managers

7 Top Tips for Achieving Any Personal Goal, Career Goal or Business Goal

I saw this quotation recently: “I would say happy New Year but it's not happy; it's exactly the same as last year except but colder.”  Robert Clark

So, why was it so difficult for to make that new personal, career or business life happen in 2015 and achieve your goals? How can you make sure the New Year is better, that you achieve your goals in 2016 and that your life is more fun and rewarding?

Last month (in tip #141) I shared to 2 of the 7 obstacles to creating the new you, new career or new business goals you might have encountered in 2015 and 2 ways to overcome them and achieve your goals in 2016.

Here are 3 more:

  1. You made the same old things important, e.g.:

Human beings like staying in their comfort zone.

As Craig Lounsbrough says, “We desire an exciting future, but the demand for familiar and comfortable tempers our steps to the point that often our steps are little more than stepping in the same place.”

This can happen even if we feel that comfort zone is actually uncomfortable. For instance:

  • You may stick in the same old job with the same difficult colleagues or boring tasks because it’s ‘better the devil you know’. Maybe you’re worried that you’ll jump from the frying pan to the fire and the change won’t be any better than you already have.
  • You may be settling for an uncomfortable kind of harmony rather than having the difficult conversation with your employee, partner, family member, client or friend.
  • You may just be making yourself too busy to get your head round taking a step into the unknown. When we’re busy we tend to fall back on our ‘default modes’…the things we’re used to doing.

If you want changes in your life, start making curiosity, learning and adventure more important than staying in your comfort zone when setting, and taking action towards, your goals in the New Year.

  1. You didn’t have the skills and knowledge you needed

Set yourself up for success by getting the skills and knowledge you need to succeed in achieving your goals in the New Year. For instance, to achieve your goals, do you need to know more about:

  • Dealing with difficult people?
  • Marketing and selling yourself, your business or your ideas?
  • Presenting?
  • Mastering your emotions – anger, stress, confidence etc.?
  • Managing your money?
  • Getting clear about what you want and how to get it?
  • ?

Find out if your employer will invest in coaching and training to help you plug some of the gaps and if they won’t… invest in coaching and training for yourself.

Clients I have been working with have often received a 100% - 400% and more return on the money they have invested in their coaching because of salary raises, better jobs and higher profits they’ve achieved in their career or business. And…their increased confidence and greater ability to create brilliant relationships has been priceless.

  1. You were surrounded by the wrong people

They say that our wealth, and the quality of our lives, is the average of the 5 people we spend most time with. At the same time negative and discouraging people can put a drag on our personal, career and business development. So…

  1. Surround yourself with people who are encouraging, creative, positive, adventurous, open-minded and mature and who have a ‘can do’ attitude. These are the kinds of people who will help you achieve your goals in the New Year.
  2. Help others to achieve their goals in the New Year by being that person for them too. And remember… like attracts like, so you’ll attract more positive people to you ☺
  3. Build a team of people who can help you achieve your goals in the New Year. Share your goals with friends, colleagues, suppliers, a life coach, a career coach, a leadership coach or a business coach

Are you interested in making 2016 your best year yet in your personal, career and business life?

If you are, I’d like to offer you a free, confidential ‘Best Year Yet’ Coaching Discovery Session

I have 5 sessions left this month.

During that 60 minute session,

  • We’ll discuss where you are with your personal, career or business life.
  • We’ll uncover hidden barriers to your success.
  • We’ll get clear about how you’d like your life to be.
  • Then I’ll show you how you can bridge that gap. You’ll go away feeling positive, excited and confident about making 2016 your best year yet.

If you would like to apply for a session, just email me: madeleine@growu.co.uk

Hurry to book your place because there are only 5 places left and this offer is going to over 1600 people. 
 

‘Madeleine Morgan Life, Career and Business Coaching, Cambridge UKMadeleine 

Warm wishes

P.S. Check out the Dates for Your Diary, Quote of the Week, ‘Useful Links’ to life changing free ‘stuff’ below.

Dates for Your Diary

1. Wednesday January 20th 2016 How to Boost Your Career Confidence

I’ll be teaming up with recruitment agency Capability Jane to present a short webinar on how to boost your confidence. You can register here

2. Wednesday 6th April 2016 Business Growth Coaching Programme

I’ve teamed up with business consultant, Tim Gale, and we’ll be launching our 11th Business Growth Programme on Wednesday April 6th at 4.30 p.m. If you’re interested in growing your business this year, in the run up to the launch we’d like to offer you a free Double Your Profits Strategy Session. In this session, we’ll discuss where your business is now and where you’d like it to be in 1 to 5 years’ time. We’ll share with you how we think you could achieve the lifestyle and business you really want.

To apply for your free Double Your Profits Strategy session, click here.

Useful Links

How to Empower and Motivate Your Team: Success for Managers Tip 143

Free Life Wheel to help you get clear about your challenges and goals

Free ebook – The Success Ladder: How to Succeed at Any Goal

"I've just read Madeleine's 'The Success Ladder' over the weekend. What a great easy and effective guide for any aspiring leader. It's very easy to read and most importantly the actions are very powerful which I've already started to implement. Thank you Madeleine and I look forward to sharing my success with you :-)" Adrian Peck

Free report on 21 ways to add 100k to your profits

7 Secrets About Personal and Business Success You Can Learn From SCUBA Diving

   
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